Nam

On the question of Warren’s grandmother… he only had one living grandmother, his mother’s mother. She was the same age as Warren’s father. He called her Nam. His grandfather was Bop. He also called Nam “The Senator”. She ruled that side of the family and neither Warren’s mother nor his grandfather ever questioned her authority. Beverly, Warren’s mother, had a congenital heart condition and had been advised not to have children. When Warren was small and would misbehave, Nam would tell him that he was killing his mother. When Warren and I were together, she went through a period where she would call every Sunday. Warren wouldn’t ever talk to her, but I did. She always told me how she and Warren’s mother (who lived next door with Elmer, the wicked stepfather) were going to come see us… but, they never did. When Ariel was born, I insisted that we buy Nam and Warren’s mother plane tickets to come visit. They didn’t want to come, but since we bought the tickets, they obliged us. They stayed for an awkward two hours, barely touched the meal I’d made, and then they were gone. Nam always remember our birthdays and would say she was sending a present, but she never did. At Christmas, she always sent the same thing: a Hickory Farm gift basket. Here’s a story Danny McFarland told about Nam when he and Warren were young.

DM: His granny had like a 1950 Ford, and Warren and I would always joke about this. She would get in her car at a certain time and drive around the block, to right near my folks house, and she’d be waiting for the mailman. And she would follow that mailman around the block to her place. Who knows what she was waiting for, but it was almost an every day deal.

Los Angeles in May

Thanks for the comments!
Here’s something from an interview that got cut from the book entirely. This woman, Pat Hetsler Kruzic, knew Warren in grammar school.

PH: The furthest back I can remember Warren was in 4th grade… no… it was 5th grade. We had a teacher and his name was Mr. Sudjian. The name of the Elementary School was Holland Elementary, and it was in Fresno, Calif. And the principal’s name was Harold Sellers. And, Mr. Sudjian was a big Armenian guy and he had a real impact on everybody because he was like anti-drug. This was before drugs were really even popular. I mean, nobody was smoking drugs or doing marijuana or any of that kind of thing. But, he was just talk to us about smoking and I remember he had a cigarette and he blew it through a white piece of cloth so we could see the nicotine and it all turned yellow. And he was like, you know, if you do drugs even one time you become hooked. He talked to us a lot about drugs. This was in 5th grade, so I think he made a real impact on everybody, on their lives. Well, he did on me, anyway. I remember Warren had a real bond with this teacher. They used to talk and Warren used to stay after school all the time and talk to him. I don’t know, I think he became a little mentor for Warren. He was real intelligent, and Warren was really intelligent. He was probably the smartest kid in the whole school. I mean, everybody knew Warren would probably be something some day because he was so smart. He was the smartest kid, by far, in that school. We had this question box where we could, if we had questions, we could write down the question we had and we’d stick it in the box. And every Friday, Mr. Sudjian would take a question out and read it and then answer it, you know. And there were times he’d ask Warren what the answer to the question was. And Warren always knew. You know, I remember once I put a question in and it was ‘how come all the waters of the oceans don’t just go and flood everything’, and Mr. Sudjian said, “Well, I don’t know. Hummm. Let me think about that.” And Warren goes, “Well, I know.” He goes, “It’s because it’s lower.” And, I went, “Oh, is that why?” And, he answered the question. He was really funny. He was blond. He had real blond hair and he had glasses. And then, I guess the biggest thing I remember about Warren was… he was living with his grandmother, it was just him and his grandmother, and he really adored his grandmother. He always talked really high about his grandmother. And he would ask me to come over and play Perry Mason with him, and he would like… I was into drama. I liked to sing and I didn’t know Warren would ever become a singer because we never sang together or anything. I didn’t even know he liked singing, but I liked singing and I liked drama. So, I’d go over there and he would like get the plot of the Perry Mason thing that we were going to do and we’d just ad lib it. And this is like 5th grade. So, he’d say, “Okay, this is the situation and I’d be whoever Perry Mason’s secretary was… I don’t remember…”

New York Events

It’s looking very likely that June 1st and 2nd there will be some New York events with the Rock Bottom Remainders to promote the book and CD releases.

June 1st, the RBRs are scheduled to play at Webster Hall. They’re going to do a two or three song tribute to Warren during which they’ll talk about the book. HarperCollins is donating 150 books to be sold with 100% of proceeds going to a charity that supports inner-city youth, America Scores.
tickets not on sale yet, but watch for them at http://www.rockbottomremainders.com/home.htm

June 2nd we’ll have a panel with some of the Remainders and me… moderated by Dave Barry. It is tentatively scheduled for 3 p.m. at the Barnes & Noble near Lincoln Center. Jordan is going to try to come and perform a couple WZ songs accoustically, and of course, participate in the panel discussion.

Hey, how come nobody ever comments on my blog? Am I doing something wrong?

An excerpt from Congressman Steve’s interview

Since the blog is still small, I guess I can get away with posting this… It’s just the beginning of a long interview with Steve that didn’t make it into the book. Totally unedited… if there’s interest, I might post more later. BTW, there’s a photo from the ‘96 campaign he references here in the book. If I could figure out how to upload photos, I’d post one here… my son-in-law, Ben, got the book cover up for me… eventually, I’ll figure it all out. Ciao, Crystal
CZ: Steve, can you talk about how you met Warren?

SC: I met him in ’93 when I was running for Governor. Rather forlorn attempt for Governor, more of an issues campaign, but nevertheless, I was. In the summer of ’93 there was a Young Democrats convention in Memphis for the State of TN. but it just happened to be in Memphis, and Warren was playing a club called 616. The guy that owned 616 was a political friend of mine and he told me, ‘Listen, I’ll make you a deal. You can have all the young Democrats as your guests come to the show and I’ll put them up in the balcony. They’ll be your guests and you can introduce Warren, if he’ll let you.’ I wanted to do something for the Young Democrats while they were in town. So, in retrospect, I realize he probably hadn’t sold the upper deck and it was no loss to him. He got the kids in and they bought beer and he made money and it was good for everybody. But, I said ‘fine’ and started Xeroxing things about Warren because most of the Young Democrats didn’t know who Warren was, a few of them did, but most of them didn’t. 17 to 20 year old kids. So, I was promoting Warren, ‘you’ve got to come see Warren’, Werewolves of London or whatever. And, I went backstage and my friend, Bud Chitham, who ran 616, took me back to meet Warren. At the time, I think he had Duncan working with him, and I went back and we talked for a while. Just went back stage and I started talking to him and we had a lot in common from just age to certain experiences to being of the same era, coming through the 60’s and 70’s, being somewhat on the outside – iconoclastic – and whatever else we talked about, we had things in common. I’d lived in L.A. for a while and all kind of things. We just instantly found we liked each other and had some type of a bond there. So, he said, ‘go ahead and introduce me.’ So, I went out and introduced him, ‘Warren Zevon…’ or whatever. I don’t remember from that day, I don’t think he did, to be honest, come out and do the Werewolves with him… do the walking with the Queen… walking with Senator Steve or whatever. Anyway, he was going to Nashville two days later and he’d be there for two days. He was playing a club there, I think it was called 324, 326, something. I said, ‘I’ll be up there. I’ll see you.’ And, I went up and I came in and said ‘hello’ to him and he said, ‘introduce me for the second act’.

(call waiting)

So, I thought, whatever, fine. I went out and said, ‘Ladies and Gentlemen, Warren Zevon’. And he came out and afterwards I asked if he wanted to have dinner. He said ‘sure’, so I took he and my girlfriend at the time and we went to a place called Sunset Grill and had dinner and talked and spent the time. We talked about different things. I discovered he detested Andrew Lloyd Webber, who unfortunately I liked and said some good things about having seen several Webber shows, but he just thought Andrew Lloyd Webber was terrible. In retrospect, I understand where he was coming from. Every show does kind of sound alike. But, he couldn’t stand him. He goes, ‘You like Andrew Lloyd Webber?’ I go, ‘Yeah, I do.’ He didn’t understand that at all. We just had dinner and talked and he said if I ever wanted him to play for a fund raiser when I’m running for office, he’d be happy to. That was nice. I drove him back to the Loews where he was staying. A kind of bi-product of that night, there was a girl there who apparently lived in Nashville who was hanging out, and the girl turned out to be my second cousin through marriage which I had never met, didn’t know, but she came up and we had the same aunt and uncle. She through the aunt’s side, me through the uncle’s side in Chicago. That was a weird thing. And that was it. Took him back to the hotel and that was it. Really, for the next couple years, occasionally I’d get a Christmas card and I sent him a few things about me, but not much. We didn’t really talk that much after that.

I think I went up to San Francisco one time and he was playing Sam’s Club. I thought, well, I’ll go by and see Warren. I’d just met him that one time, and I went by to see him and he was just as gracious as could be. He said, ‘come on downstairs.’ Went downstairs where the blue room was, whatever you want to call it… or green room. That’s what they call it. Wasn’t much of a green room. Went downstairs and talked to him about a bunch of stuff, whatever. Saw the show and he took off and went somewhere else.

Then, I ran for Congress in ’96, he’d sent me a Christmas card or two, and he’d sent me a copy of his album… Learning to Flinch… so I called him up in ’96 and said I was running for Congress. I guess I talked to Gloria Boyce, was that her name? I talked to Gloria and asked him to come out and do a show for me. To be honest, we hadn’t had that much contact and I was a little timid about even calling. But, running for Congress, I thought I did have a chance to win, which was again, it was a mistake, but I did have a chance, which I didn’t for Governor. And I called and asked if he could come out and play a concert for me and he said ‘sure’. Good. Great. And, from then on, we were in touch… with the exception of maybe one brief period of time when he had one of his common but hard-to-understand falling outs, well, he did have one with me for about maybe 5 or 6 months… from then on, starting when he came into Memphis, that was maybe September of ’96, we were on the phone at least every other day. Except when he was in Europe.

Representative Steve Cohen

Check out the latest on Senator Steve (oops, now U.S. Congressman Steve… ) http://downwithtyranny.blogspot.com/search/label/Blue%20America
Click on “Lives in the Balance” to see the video…
Steve told some great stories, some of which got edited out of the book (not by me, I might add).  I’ll have to find them and post them here.  Go, Steve!

Heating up

Wow! Yesterday things really started heating up. It seems that the Feb. 20th story in the New York Times Arts, Briefly section created quite a stir. http://www.nytimes.com/2007/02/20/arts/20arts.html?_r=1&oref=slogin My publicist at HarperCollins says she’s getting lots of requests for appearances. So, I spent half the day going back and forth with her talking about putting together a book tour. Not being a natural stage presence, I’m nervous about public appearances… but, I hear ‘even a dog can shake hands.’ The publisher seems to want to stay focused on the East and West coasts, leaving the middle of the country up to me to figure out. They will get the media on board, but they won’t cover my expenses to go to… say…. Denver or Detroit or Atlanta. I even offered to drive a rental car (my old Rav4 is on it’s last legs), but so far, no go. So… I’m working on it (with a little help from my friends). Learning about the book business as I go — a steep learning curve.

I spent the other half of the day going through the track list and annotating the songs for the CD (“Preludes — Rare and Unreleased Recordings”) that will be coming out on Ammal/New West simultaneous with the book. Hearing those songs, most of which were written and/or recorded during the period just after Warren and I got together, brought back a whole new flood of memories. Just when I think I’ve cashed in the last gem from the memory troves, something new crops up.

Galleys in

The Galleys came in, look great and are already going out to reviewers! It’s exciting, but also terrifying. Suddenly, after more than three years of working on this book, it is becoming a reality. Warren wanted the ‘whole truth’ told — at the tiime, I didn’t think about how the ‘whole truth’ of his life, included a big chunk of my own… “even the awful, ugly parts”… But, it’s happening, so I guess I’d better just take a deep breath and get ready for the ride.